Q.

Some questions Rory would like to know the answers to:

1. If men and women have such inherently different styles of communication and expression, then why, instead of trying to translate one another's words, don't we just not bother? I mean, if a woman wants to talk about her problems, and she gets frustrated when the man tries to fix it, why doesn't she just go and talk with other women and leave the poor guy alone, rather than expect him to perform some miracles of translation and be something he is not (e.g., all empathetic and sharing)? And vice versa?

2. Has there ever been a professional football player who was a goth in his youth? Can goths even play football?